About the Song
A soulful classic that has stood the test of time
In the realm of soulful music, few names resonate with the enduring power of Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes. Their music, a captivating blend of R&B, soul, and pop, has transcended generations, leaving an indelible mark on the landscape of popular music. Among their timeless gems, “If You Don’t Know Me By Now” stands as a beacon of soulful expression, a ballad that has captured hearts and ignited dance floors for decades.
Released in 1976, “If You Don’t Know Me By Now” emerged as the title track from the group’s ninth studio album. Penned by Gamble & Huff, the songwriting duo responsible for numerous soul classics, the song carries an undeniable emotional weight, its lyrics painting a vivid portrait of unrequited love and longing.
Harold Melvin’s impassioned vocals take center stage, his voice imbued with a depth of feeling that resonates deeply with listeners. His every note conveys the raw emotions of a man yearning for recognition and reciprocation of his affections. The song’s arrangement, a masterful blend of soulful instrumentation and a driving beat, perfectly complements Melvin’s vocals, creating an atmosphere of both intimacy and urgency.
“If You Don’t Know Me By Now” quickly ascended to the top of the charts, reaching number one on the Billboard Hot 100 and the Billboard R&B Singles chart. The song’s popularity extended beyond the United States, topping charts around the world and cementing its status as an international sensation.
The song’s impact extends far beyond its commercial success. “If You Don’t Know Me By Now” has become a staple in the world of popular culture, appearing in countless films, television shows, and commercials. Its enduring appeal lies in its ability to connect with listeners on a deeply personal level, evoking universal emotions of love, loss, and the desire to be truly seen.
Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes’ rendition of “If You Don’t Know Me By Now” is more than just a song; it’s an experience, a testament to the power of music to transcend time and touch the human spirit. It’s a reminder that even in the face of unrequited love, there is beauty and solace to be found in the depths of one’s own emotions.
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Lyrics: If You Don’t Know Me By Now
If you don’t know me by now
You will never, never never know meAll the things that we’ve been through
You should understand me like I understand you
Now boy I know the difference, between right and wrong
I ain’t gonna do nothing to upset our happy home
Don’t get so excited if I come home a little late at night
And we only act like children when we argue, fuss, and fightIf you don’t know me by now
You will never, never, never know meWe’ve all got our own funny moods, I’ve got mine
And boy, you’ve got yours too
Just trust in me like I trust in you
As long as we’ve been together
It should be so easy to do
Please get yourself together or we might as well say goodbye
Cause what good is a love affair when you can’t see eye to eyeIf you don’t know me by now
You will never, never never know me
If you don’t know me by now
You will never, never never know me