About the song
“Big Girls Don’t Cry” by Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons is one of the most iconic songs of the early 1960s. Released in 1962, this classic track exemplifies the distinctive sound that made Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons famous. With Valli’s unmistakable falsetto leading the way, the song quickly became a hit, capturing the hearts of many listeners.
Written by Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio, the song was inspired by an emotional scene in the movie “Tennessee’s Partner,” where the phrase “Big girls don’t cry” was uttered. This simple yet powerful line resonated with audiences and was transformed into a catchy and memorable melody that topped the charts. The song’s upbeat tempo, coupled with the group’s tight harmonies, creates a lively and infectious sound that still resonates with listeners today.
At its core, “Big Girls Don’t Cry” is a song about resilience and strength. The lyrics tell the story of a girl who remains strong and composed despite facing heartbreak. The message was empowering at the time, especially for young women, and it continues to be relevant. The song’s theme of emotional resilience is one that transcends generations, making it a timeless piece of music history.
“Big Girls Don’t Cry” was a commercial success, reaching the number one spot on the Billboard Hot 100 and staying there for five consecutive weeks. This achievement solidified Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons’ place in the music industry and set the stage for their continued success throughout the decade.
The song remains a beloved classic, often featured in movies, television shows, and various media as a representation of the 1960s pop culture. Its lasting popularity is a testament to its catchy melody, relatable lyrics, and the exceptional talent of Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons. Whether you’re hearing it for the first time or the hundredth, “Big Girls Don’t Cry” is a song that leaves a lasting impression.
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Lyrics
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cryBig girls don’t cry
(They don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry
(Who said they don’t cry?)My girl said goodbye
(My oh my)
My girl didn’t cry
(I wonder why?)(Silly boy) Told my girl we had to break up
(Silly boy) Hoped that she would call my bluff
(Silly boy) When she said to my surprise
“Big girls don’t cry”Big girls don’t cry
(They don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry
(Who said they don’t cry?)(Maybe) I was cruel
(I was cruel)
Baby, I’m a fool
(I’m such a fool)(Silly girl) Shame on you, your mama said
(Silly girl) Shame on you, you’re cryin’ in bed
(Silly girl) Shame on you, you told a lie
Big girls do cryBig girls don’t cry
(They don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry
(That’s just an alibi)Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry